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My Post-Adoption Depression
Post-Adoption Blues by Karen J. Over , people adopt children each year, and more than 2 million parents are now raising adopted children and grandchildren. While the path to parenting through adoption is rich with rewards and fulfillment, it's not without its bumps. This compassionate, illuminating, and ultimately uplifting book is the first to openly recognize the very normal feelings of stress th Over , people adopt children each year, and more than 2 million parents are now raising adopted children and grandchildren.
This compassionate, illuminating, and ultimately uplifting book is the first to openly recognize the very normal feelings of stress that adoptive families encounter as they cope with the challenges and expectations of their new families. Where do parents turn when the waited-for bonding with their adopted child is slow to form? When they find themselves grieving over the birth child they couldn't have?
When the child they so eagerly welcomed into their home arrives with major, unexpected needs? Until now, adoptive parents have had to struggle silently with their feelings, which can range from flutters of anxiety to unbearable sadness. At last, Karen J. Foli, a registered nurse, and her husband, John R. Drawing on their own experience as adoptive parents as well as interviews with dozens of adoptive families and experts in the field, the couple offers parents the understanding, support, and concrete solutions they need to overcome post-adoption blues-and open their hearts to the joy adoption can bring.
The 'blues' can surprise even adoptive parents
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More filters. Sort order. Mar 03, Emily rated it really liked it. I wouldn't say I enjoyed this book, but I needed it.
An honest, open look at the stress and struggles that can come with bringing home an adopted baby, much like the stress and struggles that come with bringing home a biological baby. The difference? I'd definitely recommend for adopting parents. Aug 03, Theresa Kicher rated it it was ok. For much of this book, I felt like it was a collection of negative stories about adoption.
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I wished that the topics, though hard, would have been addressed in a more hopeful manner. As the book progressed, I did learn several things and the book made me think about certain aspects of adoption that I hadn't considered before. Aug 28, Matt Diephouse rated it it was ok. I was really disappointed in this book. The authors present a lot of myths that people believe about adoption alongside stories that demonstrate that the myths aren't true. These stories are all sad and often demonstrate challenging situations.
But the authors present almost no truth alongside the myths. This book is also not focused on international adoption. It also presents some specifics of domestic and kinship adoption. I've found many of the other books that we've read have actually equipped I was really disappointed in this book. I've found many of the other books that we've read have actually equipped us for the challenges the authors present here.
So I wouldn't recommend reading this since it only informs you that you might experience these challenges—with no equipping. Jul 25, Krista rated it it was amazing. This book offers a practical and reality-based approach to the myriad feelings that come along after adoption, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
From Blues to Depression
They have structured each chapter around a set of expectations, how those expectations may not be realistic, and finally how to cope with those facts. For example: expectations of yourself, of your spouse, of the birthparent s , of your adopted child, of your extended family, your social workers, society, etc. I very much appreciated that the authors were wi This book offers a practical and reality-based approach to the myriad feelings that come along after adoption, and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
There is an expectation that once you have the child you have longed for, and waited for so long NOW everything will go smoothly! However, they didn't just say, "Hey, that's not how it works for most people," they offered applicable advice, peppered with testimonials from real-life adoptive families.
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The book covers stories and suggestions for all types of adoption: open, international, kinship adoption, etc. In fact, the authors encourage us to think less of the differences between types of adoption: we have more in common than we think. Apr 02, Shannon added it Shelves: parenting. Definitely an eye-opening read!
A potential adoptive parent encounters dozens of books going over the process of adoption, the stages of growth from infancy through adolescence, as well as ideas for having fun and nurturing a child. This book addresses a darker and less-disclosed reality that even after the arduous process, even after the child of your dreams is in your house, there are still hurdles to be overcome. I'm glad I am aware that "post-adoption depression" is a thing! Imagine the guil Definitely an eye-opening read!
Health-care providers, especially nurses, can be instrumental in detecting issues related to depression or the mental well-being of the parents. Being more open about such concerns can lead to a healthier, happier family.
By helping themselves, they are helping their children. This research was in association with a book project supported by Rodale Press. Writer: Amy Patterson Neubert, , apatterson purdue. Source: Karen Foli, , kfoli purdue. Note to Journalists: Journalists interested in a copy of the journal article can contact Amy Patterson Neubert, Purdue News Service, at , apatterson purdue.
Karen J. A limited number of studies have explored parental depression in the postadoption time periods and these studies frequently lack a social context of the adoptive parent experience. The objective of this study is to form a midrange theoretical interpretation of parental postadoption depression as shared by adoptive parents and experts through a grounded theory approach. Semistructured interviews of adoptive parents, who acknowledge being depressed after the child is placed in the home, and adoption experts are audiotaped, transcribed and coded to reveal themes.
In total, 30 interviews are conducted. Researchers are also participant-observers during an adoptive parent support group meeting.
Data reveal current themes in relation to postadoption depression. These themes take into account the various contexts of adoption international and domestic, public and private, etc. Parents express unfulfilled and unrealistic expectations in the domains of self, child, family or friends, and society or others. A theoretical model is presented to facilitate the understanding of depression reported by adoptive parents. Copyright Infringement Information.